cOmmuniCate !

We all need to communicate more, face to face in times when we have unforgiveness, misunderstanding, etc. And esp. when we are down, we need to rest.

Esp. since relationships are fragile and as we grow older, we have misgivings (bad experience) and personal conceptions....

Indeed many of us have many schedules, sometimes we neglect communication. Also, sometimes the styles of communication can be so different that the receiving party forgets the problem is style of communication; not negative/ personal attack.

We all need to listen more too, listening is part of a positive communication. This is necessary for everybody, especially so in families - which we often take for granted that we will always be around. Don't you see that we only miss our family fondly if they die-pass away ?

Last but not the least, I rem my fren telling me the problem she had, that if she opens her heart, pple will judge her. True, we need to share with wisdom, not to everybody. Slowly, we all know the kinds of pple to avoid. And, the styles of communication in different stages of our relationships ( when we can have mutual understandin and space to 'express' instead of just superficial sharing due to doubt/fear ) Meanwhile, we need to put away past/ present bad experiences to truly communicate and listen.